Thursday 29 March 2012

There are people and then there are people who change the world

 ... Karen Meredith Blott is one of these people.
I met this woman two years ago. She had three children at the time and had seen my business cards at a children's centre and called for haircuts. Lovely woman, engaging, energetic, kind, generous, beautiful and incredibly intelligent. I don't know what we talked about that first visit but I left feeling inspired.
She is one of those people.
Two years later their fourth child Conrad is born with Downs Syndrome and their world takes on a new and wonderful world.
In one year since Conrad was born, Karen has founded Circle 21 born out of the need for more resources and support for families and children with DS. Circle 21 focuses on health, education, employment, independent living, and peer-support-networks. While many organizations work hard at the local level to help people with DS, Circle 21 adds national and global resources, working with government, corporations, non-profits and others to coordinate significant, positive changes in the systems that support those with DS and their families.
On March 21, 2012 in Celebration of  World Down Syndrome Day, Circle 21 holds their first ever event and it is wonderful. The room is filled with family and friends and there is lots of love and warmth. It is not like being at any other event. There is a young band playing, there are young adults with DS serving lovely appetizers and their artwork is part of a silent auction.
I am looking at the silent auction items when a beautiful picture of a bird catches my eye and I think of my mother-in-law and how much she would love this ... and then I notice Nicole, the artist who is standing their watching me, clearly proud of what she has accomplished. And so we chat and she tells me where she took the photo and about her life and it is all so very beautiful.
The rest of night was much like this, a night of empowerment not only for families and children with DS but for everyone who was there. My favorite words of the night was when Karen says "Conrad has taught me that a whole new world of perfect exists".
There are people and then there are people who change the world!

Monday 5 March 2012

Are you living your dream?

Not long ago I was having wine with a girlfriend and during the evening she told me a story about a conversation she had recently with her husband and how she had said to him "are you living your dream because I am".
Wow, are you living your dream? Think about it!
These are some powerful, beautiful and possibly sad words.
Before three years ago I may not have replied yes. I had been searching for what I wanted for myself in life. I had been on this journey for many years, trying lots of things and being good at most of them but not great or maybe a more accurate word is passionate.
I wasn't unhappy and I've always felt lucky but I wanted something for me.
And then one day it happened. I was having wine, yes more wine with a different friend while 6 kids ran around waiting for their turn for a haircut ... And the idea of bringing haircuts to others in their home came to me. A couple nights later I mentioned it to my husband and he agreed it had potential and thus Haircuts on Wheels was born.
Before this moment, I had been letting life lead me. I had no goals, no dreams. Imagine!
We all need goals and dreams. I didn't know this.
A dream gets you excited,brings you beyond your immediate world and makes you passionate. Have you ever felt passionate about something. It is one of the best feelings ever. It wakes me up
in the night, it makes me exercise harder, sing louder, because it feeds my energy.
Find your passion, dream, make a plan and set goals.
Only you can create your dream! And then live it!!!